the twin flame relationship is a very special kind of bond between souls: one that defies all human beliefs and culturally accepted concepts of what we know relationships to be like.
twin flames individuals are two bodies inhabited by the same soul. they share the same energy and are intimately and profoundly interconnected in ways the human mind struggles to understand.
this is why when we encounter our twin flame and enter into this relationship, we should forget everything we think we knew about relationships.
many become frustrated when faced with the truth of this connection: they expect this relationship to be like other human relationships and become very confused regarding their interactions with their twin.
the thing is, your twin flame is not just an average person for you. they are your perfect mirror soul and are constantly mirroring to you all of your energies, both those you acknowledge and those you refuse to see in yourself.
this is why it can be so overwhelming to be in each other’s presence. nothing is hid from each other.
twins meet in space of absolute vulnerability and honesty. when the individuals are not ready for such a grade of openness they can temporarily retreat from each other. this is meant to be a moment of healing for both to reconnect with their own essence.
our twin flame is the other part of us that has entered our life to propel our growth and evolution forward. they come to stimulate all of our triggers so that we can fully embrace all of our aspects and embody our own divinity.
eventually, each twin awakens to the truth of their soul and their unconditional and eternal love for one another.
however, this relationship can really be like a rollercoaster. it is deeply mysterious and totally out of your control, and many twins become frustrated, even depressed, because this relationship is nothing like they expect it to be.
in fact, it is essential to understand one thing, and the sooner twins understand this, the better for their own mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health: this is not a simple human to human relationship.
above all, this is a soul to soul relationship, it is a heart to heart bond.
do not expect it to work according to human dynamics, because it just won’t.
everything you share with your twin has to be understood from a soul point of view: they are not here to pamper your ego and tell you the things you want to hear, they are here to propel your evolution forward like no one ever did.
they are here to help you awaken to your own divinity and push you to be the best version of yourself you can ever be.
they want you to explore your own unlimited potential and own it like you never have before!
they want you to learn to be self-sufficient, fully independent and complete on your own. they want you to learn to love yourself completely and unconditionally.
they will not physically interfere with your life until you have reached a state of deep self-acceptance and inner peace. their soul will not allow them to. that is just how it works.
they are that soul that loves you so deeply they want you to grow in your own shoes, even if it means ‘hurting’ you at some point to show you the hard truth.
mostly, the truth is that you are not truly loving yourself: you are putting others before you, you are not listening to your heart and are not living your best life.
the truth is that you have adjusted for an average life, while they want you to thrive, live your dreams and embody your own truth.
the twin flame relationship is nothing like we all have been taught about relationships. so the sooner you let go of expectations regarding this bond, the better for you and your twin.
when you encounter your twin and are awakened to this bond, you should be grateful for all the miracles this relationship is bringing and will bring into your life.
in order for you to see the true beauty of this bond, you have to let go about what you think a relationship should look like and be open for the new to surprise you.
and it will surprise you, if you allow it to.
once you allow this journey to unfold without interfering, this bond will gift you with the most soul-nourishing relationship you could ever dream of.
once you let go of expectations, surrender and allow this relationship to just simply be, without resisting or trying to control it, you’ll be overflown with soul-deep heart-felt love and acceptance.
do yourself a favour, drop whatever belief no longer serves you, open your heart wide and free and allow your soul to surprise you.
find HERE ways to heal separation pain and establish yourself in unity consciousness and HERE an easy meditation technique to connect to your heart as you will deeply benefit from being heart-centred along this path.
being a twin flame is a beautiful privilege some of us get to experience. it is a journey full of lessons and it will reward those who keep walking with the most marvellous miracles.
it is a journey back to our own nature and our soul truth. it is a journey back to Love and we are absolutely blessed to be walking this path with our divine counterpart.
read HERE an article to remind yourself why you are so lucky to be a twin flame!
remember that above all we have chosen to meet our twin soul on this lifetime to help us collapse the old separation programming. by establishing ourself in unity consciousness, we help humanity evolve. read more on the twin flame union purpose on this article.
so, let go of all expectations regarding this magical soul bond and let yourself be guided by your heart – it always knows the truth!!