meeting our twin flame marks a before and after moment and it is an event that can completely change our life. 

we meet our twin flame when we are ready to dive into the depths of our spiritual world and to awaken to our true self. often we meet them when we least expect something like that and after a period of ‘longing’ to know true love. 

meeting our twin flame ignites a fire inside of us that fuels our spiritual growth. 

there is a lot of over-romanticising over twin flames, misconceiving the meeting of twin flames as ‘finally meeting the One’ so that we can live happily ever after. yes, our twin flame is our perfect reflection and potentially our perfect partner whom we can have a wonderful life of service together; however, we need to understand that first and foremost we meet our twin flame to grow as a soul and our relationship with our twin might be something much different than our ideals of romantic relationships. the sooner we can let go of our attachments and expectations regarding this relationship, the smoother our spiritual path will be. 

twin flames share the same energy core and therefore connect at an extremely deep level. from a spiritual point of view, twin flames are the same soul who’s chosen to split into two polarities (masculine and feminine) as a way to experience physical (dual) existence. that is why when we meet our twin flame it feels extremely familiar although we’ve never seen them before. 

meeting and interacting with someone who is basically you can be quite overwhelming for both counterparts. being together moves and potentially awakens long-dormant DNA strings (Kundalini energy) and these energies might push into the surface a lot of unconscious material which can be difficult to acknowledge and accept. if you haven’t integrated your shadow side and healed your inner fragmentation yet, meeting your twin flame will push you to do this inner work. 

read more about the Awakening of Kundalini energy in this section of my blog. 

when the Kundalini energy activates in our system, our consciousness expands and we become aware of until-then-hidden parts of our Higher Consciousness as well of our Unconscious world. the energy melts our repressed and hidden emotions, which are released into our conscious mind so that we can acknowledge, integrate and let go of them. this can cause a profound ‘dark night of the soul’. 

when this happens, we are faced with our inner wounds and demons, and it can be very hard to maintain our physical relationship with our twin flame: the unbalanced emotions we are confronted with will usually cause some conflict within the relationship. we might be projecting our pain onto our twin flame or see them as someone who has come to ‘save us’ and obsess over them and this will push them away.

the more we cling onto their energy and long for ‘more’, the more they will distance themselves from us. they might do this completely unconsciously but, if this happens to you, understand that they are being guided from their soul so that you can grow into your own shoes.

such a distance might be necessary in order not to create co-dependent relationships and feed toxic dynamics. the higher selves of twins will always make sure that the relationship does not fall into unhealthy patterns. 

the nature of twin flame relationship is extremely balanced and peaceful, there are not expectation between counterparts, no unbalanced emotions, no craving nor longing. twin flames can only be together in complete freedom.

they can only engage with one another in a romantic relationship when there is no craving for the romantic and sexual connection, as this just simply happens as a byproduct of the unified energy field.

twins are magnetised to each other, with no need nor desire for this to happen, when they are able to step into their inner light and embody Unconditional Love.

they are not ‘making’ the relationship happen, they are simply being together.

Unconditional Love is all about being, being unconditionally loving in front of All That Is (oneself included!), without needing nor desiring to change anything about the present moment. it is about being totally present in the Pure Consciousness of Here and Now. 

being in the presence of our twin flame feels extremely light, joyful and healing because they show us how being aligned to our Soul Consciousness feels like. when we crave more of them, we are actually craving our own selves, our soul and our healing, we are craving to find our inner light and the joy inside of our hearts. 

this is the reason why you’ve met your twin flame. to find your inner light and the joy within your heart. to heal your inner fragmentation, which is causing ‘separation’: your separation pain does not come from simply feeling ‘separated’ from your physical twin, but is actually pointing out that you are feeling separated within yourselves and therefore with the rest of the world. ‘separation’ is not something to mend between you and your twin, but within yourself.

however, at times the separation pain you project onto your twin can be quite unbearable, check this article to see what you can do about it.

nevertheless, comprehend that feeling painfully separated from your twin means that you feel painfully separated from yourself, because they are you. it can indicate that your inner feminine and masculine are wounded and that’s what needs to be addressed, investigated and healed. when your inner feminine and masculine energies are balanced, you no longer feel fragmented within yourself and no longer crave anything (like attention or love) from your twin or others. 

you’ve met your twin flame because they serve your path as a catalyst for your spiritual awakening and your ascension process. your twin flame shows you what Oneness, Peace and Unconditional Love feels like, because they are you. so this is all about yourself. about you unveiling your own Truth. 

Ascension happens inside of yourself, within your own self. it is an intimate process with your own Soul.

it is the unraveling of your Unconscious blockages so that the pure, raw life-force (Kundalini energy) can flow freely through your Being and elevate you to your Inner Divinity.

it is about the love of your inner feminine and inner masculine and how they unite within yourself, filling you with ever-lasting bliss and joy.

it is about the deep acceptance of yourself and of the Impermanence of All That Is and the intuitive understanding that only Love is Real.

it is about embodying Divine Love, which is pure and unconditional, which shines upon everything it meets, which has no intent but itself.

it is about coming back Home, about realising that Paradise is what we are and that this is only found through the Heart.

it is about opening up to Divine Love, receiving the Grace of God and restoring Peace and Unity within yourself.

your Ascension benefits not only you as an individual soul but also the whole of creation and is especially healing (and necessary) for the current Human collective and Mother Earth. 

check out this article to read more about Ascension and how it functions. 

I hope you found this article inspiring and let me know in the comments what you think about it ❤ check this section of my blog if you want to read more about twin flames.

great blessings and love,

sara